According to a marriage counselor from Ghana, he gave his own
candid advice on what every man should do with his relationship at home.
He opined that having a
girlfriend for husband is very important. Why did he say so? Let’s read his
post.
Below what he wrote:
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Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but the
girl part of the wife he once fell in love with.
You may buy a new lock made of steel, with its keys. The key
doesn’t spoil the lock nor vice versa but over the years, the environment and
factors such as dirt, rain, may change in weather; etc cause the lock to rust.
So its important to oil and maintain it.
A similar fate occurs in our relationships. You get married to
that young, fun, adventurous girlfriend.
As time goes on, most ladies assume that once they earn the
title of a wife, no more work is required. It even gets worse when she starts
bearing children.
That thought is a lie, Marriage is work dear. You will need to
work on your marriage. Remember the things he first fell in love with, things
about you that captured his heart and attracted him like a magnet; what did
this man see in you?
Are you still doing those things, how is the fun in the
marriage? What is he complaining about? Do you see him chatting with other
ladies, trying to look elsewhere?
It’s time to work on yourself. Your husband is wrong to look
elsewhere, and you have the power to keep him home.
Exercise
regularly, lose the excess weight and eat healthy. Inside beauty is not enough,
external beauty is important, maintain what God gave you.
Don’t
let marriage makes you look older than your age.
Dirt and uncleanliness is a common killer of intimacy in
marriage. Some wives are too lazy to keep their surroundings organized and
clean.
The presence of children in your marriage should not kill your
romance or intimacy. Remember how many times you bath a day when you were going
on a date?
How fresh and clean you looked?. If you can keep your home and
yourself like that, you will bring back the intimacy.
When was the last time you sent that cute sms? When was the last
time you had that candle light dinner? When was last time you appreciated your
partner’s efforts? How is your s*x life? Most couples crave for s*x when dating
but turn their bedroom into courtroom when married, it’s time to go back!
Don’t let your actions part God’s union as Matthew 19:6 (ESV)
cautions “So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has
joined together let not man separate.”
Do you agree with his above comments, then drop a message in
order for us to know how this has benefited you in all ramifications.
Source: www.naijapr.com
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